Harness ballgags
I love presents!!! I got two so-called harness ballgags and of course I wanted to test them and Anahí was with me. We tried to figure out how they work but there are too many possibilities! Too many straps!! Sure, I saw some pictures on the internet, but when you have them in your hands it is a different thing! It’s very confusing. We need to do more research on these. It’s very nice of you to send me bondage things, but I am really just into handcuffs, so don’t be mad if I don’t know anything about gear like this!!
Well, don’t worry that you don’t know much about these. You will learn in time! But just to warn you, you might get hooked on them. They really make any kind of bondage (even handcuffs in front) feel so much different. You definitely feel helpless in them. The best way to use them (of course) is when the bondage makes it completely impossible for you to get your hands anywhere near the ballgag, so that you can’t take it off. I hope you start incorporating them into your next posts along with your normal bondage gear.
I agree, gags very definitely increase that sense of helpless and vulnerability that bondage is all about. But you do have to be just a little more careful. Ball gags are relatively safe as gags go, but there’s a small risk of choking on any gag and they can certainly make it harder to call for help should you really need it. So always have somebody nearby, and play safe!